Remembering when I lost a contest...

The other day one of my husband's daughter stopped by for a brief visit. Before she and her boyfriend left to go back to their home which is out of state, I grabbed as much as I could from the refrigerator so they would have some food when they arrived at their place. The night before I made a huge pot of soup and even gave them the slow cooker which contained the soup.

My husband jokingly said to me "You're dangerous when you like someone." I didn't think about his comment until today.

It triggered something that happened to me as a child. You see, I've always been that way.

I remember a swimming contest I was in while living with my new adopted American family in Caracas, Venezuela. The purpose was to win the contest. But, even at that young age, that was not my purpose. I don't think I understood what "winning a contest" meant. Although, I did want to please my parents.

Someone said START and I did with all my friends. I was doing well - way ahead of everyone. My parents were cheering me on. And then, I made one fatal mistake. I turned and saw my good friend struggling to catch up. I went to help her and, as a result, I lost the contest.

My mother was very upset and scolded me for doing that. My father, on the other hand, was very proud of me. Now that I'm "all grown up" I can see that I won more than a silly prize.

I believe we are here to help others in any way we can. Not to enable them but when there is a need, then step up to the plate.

So, my friends, how many times have you stepped up to the plate? Have you been rewarded or scolded?

The New Year is fast coming. How about making a resolution to help those who need help - big or small. No fanfare necessary, just be yourself and you'll feel good about it.

Remember Karma...

May you have a BLESSED NEW YEAR.

Stay warm and stay tuned. I'm starting a new online Radio Show that will be called Sedona Speaks. You'll hear more soon.

Take care, be well, be happy, find something to laugh at
Karin Janin, Author of Magic of Intention: Know Your Intention, Design Your Future

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